- soothing words when we’re kids..and it still is
pernah tak kita terjatuh masa kecik2 dulu dan menangis tersedu-sedu.. mak kita akan angkat kita dan pujuk kita dgn ayat2 berikut
”ala2 sayang mak.sapa buat dier?sapa jahat?batu jahat yer?nanti mak pukul batu tuh.dah toksah dok kawan ngan batu tuh”
kita mesti akan berhenti tersedu dan sakit kat lutut yg tercalar tadi tak rasa sgt pun.sebab ada org yg dapat membela nasib kita,mempertahankan kita.anything else dah tak matters anymore.
padahal rasionalnya kita tak berhati-hati.batu tuh dok kat situ jer.tapi lama2 kita tau sendiri yg kita kener berhati-hati the next time we cross the same path.our mum need not to tell us at the very moment of pain and suffering,that we’re just being careless or what we should have done to avoid it.at that very moment of pain,the intention is to reach out and lessen the pain.
the way to avoid it may come in the next lesson.
i learned a very good communication skill yesterday.when people in pain or suffers from anything that they can’t handle alone anymore,that very moment is not the time to tell them what they should do to avoid it or to be wise.at that very moment we just have to listen or maybe say some most soothing words that world could ever offers..
”ala2 sayang dier..sapa buat?sapa jahat?……………………..
and i know how wonderful it feels coz
im the kid that ”fell and scraped her knees,crying her heart out becouse of the pain”…..and someone did say some words match of those….